Listen to the audio... the RCMP officer, Constable Dave Strachan recognizes that the recording device is poor, but does nothing to fix it... then he eventually proceeds to say "You have all day to play games with me..."
This is how he interviews an 8 year old child who has been anally raped and tortured for years... the reason I mention anal rape is because you will wonder why there was not evidence of rape... the perpetrator was too smart to do vaginal rape and my doctor confirmed that an anal abrasions heal very quickly just like sores in your mouth.. his words...
My child repeatedly asks for me... but when we got there Dave Strachan stood between my child and I and said "You need to go over there and you go in here; I need to talk to her alone!" My child pleaded for me.... he finally had to bring me in... and was rude when he says "Can you come in here?"
Not how any victim should be handled, let alone a child victim.
This is how he interviews an 8 year old child who has been anally raped and tortured for years... the reason I mention anal rape is because you will wonder why there was not evidence of rape... the perpetrator was too smart to do vaginal rape and my doctor confirmed that an anal abrasions heal very quickly just like sores in your mouth.. his words...
My child repeatedly asks for me... but when we got there Dave Strachan stood between my child and I and said "You need to go over there and you go in here; I need to talk to her alone!" My child pleaded for me.... he finally had to bring me in... and was rude when he says "Can you come in here?"
Not how any victim should be handled, let alone a child victim.
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Sorry some of the words are out of order a bit later in the video... it took me hours to put this together and it got messed up a bit with the wording...
ReplyDeleteSome of the words are out of order.... listen to the RCMP telling her to start at the beginning... and indication she is telling the truth is when she says "There isn't really a beginning..." When you are sexually abused, and I was myself, you don't know how it all started, you don't know the beginning... it is all a mish mash of events... I hate this cop!!
ReplyDeletemelody is this still a open case are is this freak walking around not in custody
ReplyDeleteHe has always been free.... the cop did not believe my child.... I believe he thought that I was some vengeful ex lover just telling my child to make this up.
ReplyDeleteI don't know what Henning said to the cop, but he did a pretty good job at convincing him that I was just some crazy liar or whatever... Henning is 33 years older than me... he was not my lover, but like a father to me... I grew up in foster care and he was a friend of my foster father... he knows how to choose victims who don't have support systems so they are easy prey.
I have tried to repeatedly get the RCMP to listen to my story, even introduced new evidence from the psychological assessments, but they refused to look at that too...
That is why I am writing a book about this and why I started the blog... my hope was to create such a public outrage that they would be forced to reexamine this case, but it hasn't happened yet... maybe if I can get the book finished and published it will help.
You are hurting your daughter more every time you put this material public can you not see that. Please educate yourself on childhood sexual assault and how it affects the child into adulthood and the proper care and therapy that is required to make her feel that it was not het fault and how she is able to live a life worth living and with meaning and purpose. By contrast to what you are doing is in no way helping her, but you victimize her over and over again in this blog.
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ReplyDeleteI am very aware of of the effects of childhood sexual assault, I am a victim of it myself, and it took me into until what happened to her to even begin to start resolving those issues, and burring it all inside of me and pretending that it didn't happen did ZERO to help me. We did every kind of counselling imanigable to no avail, and I have repeatedly offered to continue counselling with her and to take her home, but she chooses to nothing to help herself and in turn does nothing to help her own daughter....
ReplyDeleteEducate yourself on the RCMP and how disgraceful they are.... filing a complaint is a joke. You have no idea what I have been through or how this affects my life..... If you are a parent you know that nothing is worse in the world than having something tragic happen to your child. I choose to take that pain and try to turn it into something good.... if not by finding justice for her, then perhaps by having this man investigated for the crimes he likely committed against other.
I don't get to go aimlessly through life and not take accountability because something terrible happened to me.... I lived a horrific childhood myself, but I still had to pull myself together, go to school, go to work and be a mom, mostly all by myself....
Maybe you believe what happened, but the cops don't and I am trying to lay the proof out as much as I can, and I won't stop fighting to be heard.
I SHOWED MY DAUGHTER THE MATERIAL I WAS WORKING, ON I ASKED HER PERMISSION AND SHE GAVE ME HER SUPPORT AND SIGNATURES.... THANK YOU.
My sincere apologies my presumptions were way off base and I am sorry if I have caused you more pain. It's my hopes and prayers that you will have some closure and your daughter is able to heal herself...again I'm sorry, thanks for your explanation though I feel as though I have no right to it.
ReplyDeleteThank you for your apology, but I really don't feel you have done anything wrong. You relayed your true feelings and concern for my daughter and I very much appreciate that. I have no problem sharing the truth about myself or any other part of this story, it is after all the truth and part of who I am... part of my world. My purpose it to help others to understand and learn from this tragedy... it is such a bizarre story that it is hard to believe, but I really appreciate someone like you taking the time to ask questions and to learn and to see that despite how messed up a story like this may seem, that sometimes life just dishes out a series of tragedies that leads to more tragedy... sometimes of an unbelievable magnitude, but it does indeed happen.
ReplyDeleteBelieve it or not, mine is not the only story like this out there... In my research I have found other stories of child sexual abuse that are similar and may support psychological torture and/or exposure to extreme violence in order to control a victim.... perhaps one day I will finally finish my book and you will read and learn the full story here... how the tragedy in my own childhood, in effect lead to the tragedy in my daughter's childhood...
Thanks for understanding and taking the time to learn... I really do appreciate it.